Even though this website is for little kids, it can maybe help anyone, check it out!
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Dealing With Conflict
Everyone has conflicts in their life. It can deal with you and a friend, a family member, or just anyone, and a lot of people don't know how to deal with it in the right way. I found a website that might help, it's for younger people, but it can help with anyone if they are having a conflict with someone. What I've learned from this website is that there are three main ways to deal with a conflict you are having with someone, one way is "the loud choice" which means that when someone does something the irritates you, you just yell and fight with them about it. The second way is "the soft choice" and that is where you just ignore whatever someone is doing that bothers you and just walk away. The third and last choice is "think and share", this is where you tell the person straight up what they are doing bugs you and maybe it's just a misunderstanding and you can get both point of views. In my opinion the think and share is the best choice.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Loud Neighbors!
As a part of team 3, I am excited to be blogging this year on the topic of co-existence.
In my neighborhood my neighbors that live right behind me are really loud and annoying, it doesn't even seem like they live in their house, they are just always in their backyard partying. Just a couple nights ago my mom had to call the cops on them because they were getting so out of hand. It was about 3a.m. and I thought that just their partying was bad but now they have a dog and they just left it outside with them and it would not stop barking. My mom wouldn't have minded if the dog just barked for a little bit and then they let it inside, but they just left it out there and my mom even told them to let it in. But they didn't so my mom called the cops and they then let it inside. I'm not quite sure what we should do about this problem but they won't stop and everyone in my house is losing sleep, and probably my other neighbors as well.
If anyone has any ideas that would help this conflict I'd like to know, Thank you.
Labels:
all nighters,
drinking,
loss of sleep,
loud music,
Obnoxious Neighbors,
parties
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